If You Could Only Give Yourself A
Chance To Try To Understand
(Rough-copy of my brain)
Coution: Read with a
funny voice, but take it seriously.
Do you have an
opinion? Ofcourse you do. But have it ever occured to you, that when
you have one opinion about something, you close the door to all other
options in your life. And its mostly about choices you make.
Starting with wether you like or dislike carrots in your soup and
ending with judgement of grater things, like other people life. Their
choices from your perspective. Judging and making conflict situations
where there might be another way of living life.
It all starts from the first day of
your life.
So you are here, the
one who came from your mother and father,to this damaged and
corrupted world, that nobody actually knows where it came from.
Congratulations! Its going to be a pile of challenge!
Your loving parents shows you their
world. They teach you about the world they see in their eyes. They
love you, and cherish you, spoil and judge, by the perspective that
in their opinion is right. So you learn, as they did learn, from
their parents and grandparents, and world history that is given to
simple mortals, as we are. etc etc etc. You get yourself into a
bubble. You want it-or not (Doesn't matter how full of freedom your
childhood was)-your in a bubble.
There is loads of bubbles in this
world. Close your eyes and imagine it. Every single person is growing
their bubble, with the seeds of tradition, history, moral stuff,
religion, small joys and sufferings, future perspectives. Congrats, u
were born to adapt! U were born to fit in! U were born to serve! And
in the end u were born to live. But your life is as narrow as your
bubble. And its only up to you how u are going to expand its walls.
So lets go back to the opinions. As u
live daily, there is not much time to actually consider having more
than one. Doesn't it feel , that all your life was drawn by people
around you? U went to school, learned the so called "real facts"
about this world, got your diploma and ran up the stairs of your
career (or not). Doesn't really matter. The point is, that you are
judged and pushed to the point where you are now. And for some, you
are a great and successful person, as for others, Your'r a looser,
because they did things better, or as they think so. Of course ,
there is some, who doesn't really judge, if u did any great in your
path, usually they are called the good people. They are called the
ones who has their own bubbles, that doesn't require snakes in their
garden. They support you, they listen, they share, until one day they
break from all the other bubbles attack and start doubting why the
fuck would anyone ever do this, and if there is another way to
survive? Then they either run and hide, or stay and fight. They
usually end up alone. Because they have another opinion and
perspective of everything. Sorry, not sorry. No happily ever after
here.
So that's how opinions is inculcated
into most of you. By the surrounding
that surrounds
you, u pick up peaces and slowly put them around you, creating like a
great peace of art, thats called a personality. Its all built from
your opinions, that helped to make choices, that helps to create just
another surrounding for future generations. Yay!
But who else if not you, gonna kick
some of these great walls that are built for you to suffocate. Every
day you run and do your chores. U take small breaks from your life
that are given to you, as a great gift that you deserved for all the
amazing job that you did in a place where your bubble put you in. You
take just enough time, so that you wouldn't get too attached to life
without the walls build around you. And don't worry, u will never get
too stuck into your freedom, because there is a reminder, its called
money! And money likes to remind about itself when they run out.
And daaaamn, it sounds soooo sad and
negative. But that's the truth that I see. So if you read till here,
carry on.
So its all just another option created
by opinions, how you gonna choose to see the world. And you
definitely don't have to agree with me. What's right for one person,
might be totally wrong for masses. And vice versa. The whole point of
this "article" is not entirely as negative as it might
sounded so far.
One more time about opinions that leads
you to options:
The only way to expand and color your
bubble, is through knowledge. Its not only about knowing the facts,
its about understanding the situation. Its about seeing it in
different perspective. Learning from your mistakes. Creating the
personality that belongs to you, without others putting you in a
strange position. Its about accepting who you are, without shame and
regret of your dreams and choices in life. Its about being brave to
feel all the good and bad that happens to you, and the ones around
you, without old traditions and believes that breaks your freedom.
So give yourself a chance to try and
understand the importance of yourself in this world. You might not be
a leader, you might not be a prince or a queen. (They're all just
titles created by humans anyway, to create all the other humans that
will follow the lead.) But in reality-only You are the one who builds
your path. You have a right to say no , when its wrong. You have a
right to change your life when your not happy. You must understand
that there is always an option for every situation. U don't have to
run straight down the hill , just because its "a right thing to
do".
Step on a sidewalk.
Turn left.
Explore.
Watch and see things, that you thought
does not belong for you to see.
We all have a choice. And we all have a
chance. Open your mind for a possibility to go away from everything
that slows you down. May the force be with you.
Written by just another person who had
to get sick to actually do something that he likes.
Autorius: Kavytė Data: 2017.02.04
